This week, we talked about the growth mindset in class. It looks a very powerful tool that can change our life. The whole emphasis is on the
process rather than the outcome. I'm sure most of us can recall the times when our parents asked us about our exam results and whether we won the game/tournament/contest we participated. It is definitely the case for me because they never asked if i had learned anything or did i had fun, mostly i believe it have to do with the Singaporean mentality and my family background.
You see, both my folks had humble beginning, they worked hard to put my brother and me through tertiary education and all they want is for us to get a good certificate, thus live a better life than them. It is so competitive in Singapore that a diploma doesnt seems adequate enough to hold a well-paying job, even the market now are saturated with degree holders.
I believe this is why most parents(at least mine) focus on the outcome rather the process. Losing/failing is a bad thing, even when learning something from the experience it is stilled viewed as a failure. I guess they had forgotten about the Chinese proverb,
"failure is the mother of success"
There is just so much good stuff about this growth mindset that i am wondering what the hell the people in MOE are doing. I mean someone has got to get hold of this and start it in our schools immediately! I tried looking for the cons/disadvantages of growth mindset, either i am looking at the wrong place or there's just isnt any or no one had conducted any research about it yet. For something that can be taught in one workshop, it really sound like a perfect concept that might finally just result in an ideal world (wishful thinking, maybe) but i think they should put a whole town on trial and see what it does to the whole community.

This picture shows the different in the thought process of the different mindsets.